thats the thing, im not having bridesmaids or a maid of honour as i dont really have any close girlfriends
hmmm well in that case hun, u might need to have more of a hand in organising your hens night than u would otherwise have liked. I re-read your first post and noticed u had a sister. Maybe u could ask her to help
you organise it - so that way you have somebody to assist u, but u are not leaving the entire thing to somebody who is not in the bridal party (but of course that would depend on how close you two are, how comfortable u are with her and if she would be offended by u asking). It is a trickier situation than normal, because it is usually the bridesmaids who help in the planning of the hens night. Good luck with it all!