I'm going to go against the trend and say I DIDN'T BUSTLE ALL NIGHT!
I loved my dress and personally am not a big fan of dresses being bustled (each to their own though). I did have the option to bustle but I also had a loop on the train to put on my finger so throughout different parts of the night I either just let it hang down
or put it onto my finger (mainly for dancing). I figured I wasn't paying all this money for an amazing dress for only 1 night & not having it look the way I loved it. I didn't find it an issue at all but I suppose it depends on the dress too.