AGAPE.... I nearly died when i read you were told not to wear your dress for a wedding where you could be mistaken for a BM and secondly being told not to interact or dance with your man all night in case something thought you were a BM??!!!
That is crazy!
Seriously i think some brides put a heap of crazy rules in, just to annoy people.
Don't get me wrong i do think there are some simple basic rules people should follow, but i think it's a 2 way street.... The guests should not try to make they day about then and should not ask you to change anything about your wedding to suit them unless there is a really good reason. Secondly i don't think a wedding is an excuse for a bride to be a bridezilla and demand ridiculous rules just because she can, if she wants people going away and having nice things to say when they think back to her wedding, then you do have to consider what your guests would like/enjoy too.
while we are on the topic, and i may be the only one who feels this way and please don't attack me if i am
I don't get the whole BM's and GM's having to seem like a couple the whole day when they aren't? I wouldn't want to look back at my photo's and see them all holding hands or standing in pairs as if they are couples, it would be weird for me (unless of course some are couples).
In fact at my wedding because we are only having a small wedding of about 50 people and 10 of that are bridal party, i'm not even doing a big long bridal table. I am having a smaller bridal table with myself, my FH, my MOH and her hubby next to me and the best man and this partner next to my FH... The other BMS are allowed to sit at the allocated table with their partners. I wouldn't enjoy a wedding if i couldn't sit with my fiance at all for the whole evening, so i was taking that into consideration. Then there was that style wedding Agape went to, where she couldn't even dance or really been seen with her man.. That would really upset me, the only woman allowed to dance with my man is another woman lol... hmmmm..... Anyhow... thoughts? (Please be nice)