Yes, I tend to agree with most of these. At the end of the day for me, it isn't about how much money is spent etc or how flashy it is, it's about the people, and atmosphere. All I want is for everbody to leave saying that they had a Great Day/Night! It's funny someone mentioned the favours, I was up in the air as to whether to have them or not because I can't remember any of the ones I have received at weddings, although I have now opted to go for them!
Definately agree with the bride and groom talking to everyone, for us, I will be introducing my FH to quite a few people for the first time as he hasn't met everyone that lives in NZ, nothing like a wedding to meet the groom I guess
To be honest I spend so much time worrying about what other people are going to think about our wedding it does my head in.
I just have to keep telling myself it is 'our' day.