Oh Amy, that is funny and you know - exactly how I feel right now. I have been very fortunate in that my family have really rallied around me and done all of this for me except for a couple of people we can't get. I just couldn't face saying it over and over again and they have been fantastic and taken on all of the yucky stuff.
You are so right that on here it probably sounds like I am ok but I am far from it. I am devestated, disappointed, I feel as though all of my dreams have been torn out from under me and I cannot understand why. I know lots of people probably say this when a relationship breaks down but honestly I had no idea this was coming, not even a hint of wierdness or distance from him. It has come out of the blue which is why it has been so shocking. It is starting to sink in now and I am taking care of myself and focussing on the future and just picturing me in 12 months time and where I will be and how I will feel. It is much much better than the here and now.
Thank you all so very much for your support and best of luck with all of your wonderful weddings!