Ahhhhhh I am having this dilemma!
My engagement ring is white gold, but my dress is ivory with a lot of lace detail - the lace has gold thread with gold beads in the bodice. What do I do? Silver looks too silver next to that gold but gold clashes with the ring.........I thinking of getting crystal with a slight gold backing you can't really see - to try and tie in the gold, and the crystal with the diamond. Or should I wear pearls? But I'm thinking I should take the opportunity to bling it up. Help me girls! (I am spending way too much time thinking about this when I should be studying!)
Marigold, I would go for gold(hehe) so that it ties in with the gold thread in your dress. Like somebody said earlier, your rings are on your hand and the rest of your jewellery will be concentrated around your face.