Kwitty wrote:My original idea was a ceremony with finger foods and champagne, then an intimate family dinner with just FH and my immediate families.
UNFORTUNATELY as soon as my parents found out we were engaged, they got on the blower to all my aunties and uncles telling them "there's going to be a wedding!"
So yeah.... do it!!!! Not rude at all!!
MrsSomers wrote:I think it's perfectly fine to do it that way, particularly as you will be having finger food and champagne.
You may have to put up with the questions of why youre not doing it the "traditional" way though, especially from the oldies!