We are having our wedding over in NZ and are not inviting children, mauinly becaue the venue isn't overly big and we already have 120 guests invited, also if all the children came there would be more children than adults!
This is going to be an issue for those people living in NZ, and most of our guests over here have already arranged their parents to look after them, all the children are no longer babies.
The thing is we have just had a message from a friend who tells us he is booking his flights today and they are going to make a holiday out of it with the kids. Obviously if they book and dont have anyone to look after the kids we aren't going to tell them not to come, but I would have thought they would double check with us about kids first, considering we have spoken about it already. Is there anyway we can tell them politely that we aren't catering for children???
I hate this awkward kind of stuff