I am sooo annoyed at the moment and need some help.
I will give the short story. My brother and I do not get on. Its actually gotten to the point he dosn't not spead a word to me even if i say hello!! We had my cousins wedding 2 weeks ago and i said hello to m brother and his wife and they both ignored me
I have put up with my brothers crap for 90% of my life. We were close as kids but as soon as he got to high school and beynd he has changed. I have put up with soo much crap that now I will know longer even keep trying, even say hello if i saw them. He got married in March and to be honest, i felt like a complete outsider at my own brothers wedding, him and his wife didn't really even acknowledge that i was there
They come to my parents house and dont even say a word to me, they just act like im not there.
This afternoon i said to my mum that i do not want my brother to know any of my wedding details as he will see it all on the day but im starting to wonder whether i should even invite them considering they treat me as if they dont know me anyway, well all hell broke loose and i got shouted at and told that he is my blood and i will only have one brother and he HAS to be there as well as his wife!! Mind you my mum has always stuck up for him. Now she is saying if they are not invited she wont attend
I just dont know what to do. My SIL has already started saying her wedding is better than ours will ever be and how unattractive i will look as a bride (really helps my low self esteem). To me a wedding is not a competition, everyones weddings are just as gorgoeus as the next person and to me my wedding is about marrying the man i love
What do i do, do i invite them or not??