Hugs Brys! It's so hard not to get stressed and silly nightmares don't help.
I'm so worried about something going wrong on the day after all these nightmares I've been having. Our celebrant mentioned last night that one groom only had one job and that was to take the rings and he forgot them! So last night dreamt that FH forgot them and we ended up using bubble gum rings that my FG had!
You'll get there though, things fall into place the sooner it comes, I think we just stress because they don't fall into place when we'd like.
I've actually almost finished writing out entire ceremony today! The celebrant gave us a few examples last night and I don't like any of them
FH wasn't a big fan either, they just seem like something you'd expect for someone in their 50s getting married. There's little bits we liked though, the celebrant wrote a really nice blessing to have at the end so we're keeping that but most of it I've had to do from scratch. Surprisingly not as stressful as I though but just hoping it's ok and FH actually likes it.