I'm hoping mine will be ok. I'm almost at the point of feeling like I need to ask my MOH to step down
And she's the one organizing the hens night!!
I'm going to see how we go dress shopping Wednesday and if she's not any better I may have to have that chat. I just don't know how to deal with her anymore, she's become really selfish these past months. Can I possibly get some opinions as to whether I'm over-reacting? I just don't want to seem like I'm having a Bridezilla moment.
We had the chat at the beginning about who was going to pay for what and I offered to help out as much as I could as MOH is a single mum, I went halves on her first dress and that's about the extent of what I can afford at the moment. There's just not a spare cent and it's looking like I may have to skip the extra videography of us girls getting ready that I wanted. Anyway, she's now practically demanding I pay for her hair and makeup and nails. She's telling me she doesn't want to chip in anymore for the accommodation for the wedding night, we hired a big house for all of us and it's only $50pp and that's for the two nights for her so not crazy expensive. And since she doesn't fit the first dress anymore, rather then looking at alterations, she's been out looking for dresses and found one she loves (I think it's hideous, just ruching in all the wrong places and completely the wrong colour, it's more an emerald green) that she's telling me I'll have to go halves for, it's $220! The formal place I want to go to on Wednesday has dresses from $50, I could pay for the whole thing, but she's being all sulky and doesn't want to go all the way down there. It's only a 20min drive and I've even offered to pick her up. And she's been super sulky that I don't want to stay out till 4am for the hens night and get drunk with her. I can't drink at the moment so there's no appeal to go out clubbing. I've told her I won't be having an early night but 1am, maybe 2am will be my extent. I'm that sick I've barely been able to see 10pm most nights but it's my hens party so I'll see how I go. I also asked her a few weeks ago if there's anything she wanted me to wear for the hens party, no whatever I wanted was fine so went out and bought a nice dress, it was only $50 but she's now told me she doesn't like the dress and she's picked out one for me for the night that's $100! It's just so frustrating, there's lot of little things too. She asked if I wanted her to grow her hair out for the wedding and I said that would be really nice as I was thinking an updo for the BM, she went and got it cut last week, into a bob so there's no way any style of updo would work. Not a big thing but when you've asked you don't then turn around and do something else. And she spent my bridal shower sulking because it wasn't what she envisaged and my sister didn't include her in the organizing. I asked her when my sister first started organizing if she wanted to help, of course the answer was no so she had no grounds to sulk. I just get the feeling that I may end up regretting having her beside me on the day. Sorry for the long vent, just not sure if I'm over-reacting but it's just so frustrating.