Mel, poor FH! I agree with Erin, tell him to keep it short and sweet, just a thankyou really, or make sure he has a couple of drinks first
I'm stressing about the speeches too
I've got my speech all written out but I hate being up in front of people, I'm nervous about having to talk during the ceremony and that's when people will be watching both FH and I so I hate the idea of all eyes just on me. And I'm nervous about FH's speech, he hasn't started writing it yet which isn't a problem, I'm just more so stressed about what he'll say! He can be quite embarrassing at times without realizing so hoping he doesn't make me want to crawl under the table.
I'm starting to get nervous now that most your tickers are under a month! I know it won't be long until mines there
And there's still so much to do!
Beck, biggest problem with MOH is I'm worried she'll not talk to me again if I ask her to step down. She's been my best friend for years and her little boy is my godson, I absolutely love the little tike so I hate the idea of not being able to see him again. I'd love her to be there with me on the day but it's just so hard when she's being like this. I can't really deal with any other dramas, everyone in my family and FH is telling me to drop her. I just really don't want to upset her but I just can't deal with the added stress. It's at the point where I'd ask FSIL in a heartbeat if I could and I've only met her once! I just know she'll be excited and easy to deal with but I guess we'll see how Wednesday goes.
On a plus note though, I've had a minor breakthrough with the BM dresses if worst comes to worst. I was in at forever new yesterday and found some dresses in teal, and there's a good chance they'll wear them again. I've even offered to buy my cousins or my sisters if they won't wear it again as I love it. They're a touch more expensive then I wanted, $120 but it's not crazy. I've offered to go halves with my sister and cousin on theirs, I know I probably should with MOH but she still hasn't paid me back for the first dress so if I never see that it will be more then half I've put towards hers. So at least if I can't find anything cheaper come Wednesday I won't be stuck. Here's a photo of the dress anyway.