adrienne wrote:dungie79 wrote:Two weeks today and I dont feel the way that I thought I should be feeling.. *sigh*. Families eh?!
Anyway, most things are done from this end. Suppliers all paid and hopefully invoices on their way shortly. The only thing that I need to do before I leave is finish my speech and make the Oos and burn the ceremony CD..
It'll all be over soon.... thats what i keep telling myself lol
I am feeling depressed about the lack of "friends" i have after planning my own hens for Kalgoorlie which i was told in no uncertain terms i must have (then that person wont be here now!) so its a total of 3 work people and 2 people i am good friends with since moving here which is pizza and drinks in my back yard - Party hard - NOT! , and trying to make a list to my BM/MOH of people to invite for my hens at home (includes/makes up mostly people NOT invited to the wedding as its a family only wedding and they wont be there til the weekend after) of which there is only me, my sister, my MOH and her sister in law that are our age (20-30yrs) coming. Everyone else is over 50 . Not that thats an issue but it really hits home that i just dont have many friends my age.
I think i need that drink now!
awwwwwwwwww... its hard isnt it. I think that around a third of the ppl coming to my hens are mums friends! Which is actually a good thing coz they are lots of fun. I guess if you try to turn it around, at least it will be a small party and you will have a chance to have a great conversation with everyone there, rather than just briefly chatting. I remember a hens night that I went to where the bride barely spoke to me, and I think that I was only invited to make up numbers!
I also totally get how hard it is to live in another state or country. People dont seem to understand how hard it is sometimes and dont really think about that. They just continue their life happily. Please dont take it to heart. And especially since it was forced upon you to plan it yourself!
Oh gosh, thats exactly what I am thinking... I have to go over to my FILs this weekend and try and sort out the issue, but I am already feeling sick about going. Its not my problem, and whatever decision they make I will respect, but its less than two weeks to go and I dont wanna deal with it!!!