Thanks so much for all your support girls, it has been so appreciated and I feel so much better today. I think that Kate, you are so brave to face everything you're going through, I can't believe I come on here and have a whinge. Actually I have to say one of the things that was making me so miserable is that I didn't like what was happening with fh and I. Usually when we have stress outs it is just one of us stressing and the other can step up and show support. This has been one of the first times in a while that we have both been super stressed (about other non-weddingy stuff too, but won't go in to that) and I don't think we handled it real well, but I feel we have sorted it all out now
still no honeymoon but we're still getting married ha ha ha...
So back to wedding plans, I'm so thrilled that eveyone is so close. My to do list is pretty short too, and I carry it round with me:
-get paperwork and all of our 'bits' to the venue
-get a big fat checque to pay the venue with
-make envelopes to pay the band, the make up
-pay florist and go down and get the lace to them for buttonholes
-write beautiful thankyou letters to mums, dad, brother and groomsmen (bridesmaids done)
-final beauty preps- pedi, mani, tan, hair
-see if i can find someone to video wedding
-write speech with FH
Of course all sorts of little things do pop up, but I'm pretty sure we're nearly there!!
so pleased that everyone else is travelling fairly stress free.
YAY For weddings.
PS I'm not nervous to marry fh but I am a bit nervous about the whole day- after all this money i really want an awesome wedding!!!