Please forgive me, but I'm just too anally retentive to not have the list in it's proper order
Tee hee, I was going to do the same thing
Chrisbins- It's okay hun, you still have time...it might go by fast, but if you do things methodically, you should be able to get them done. Write a list of what needs to be done, from most important to least, and also what can be done at one time, then start to work your way through it. Like the shoes, shirt, jewellery and underwear...could you get someone to mind your son for a few hours so you can get all of these in one big hit? Can you wait until FH is back?
Do you have an idea of what you want for decos and bombonnierre? Try looking online and sourcing/ordering them, then picking them up (unless delivery is superfast and guaranteed). Have you booked someone to come to you to do hair and make-up....or are you going to a salon? Try make an appointment either way for a trial...they should be able to have a play around with your hair and suggest styles for you, then you can just choose....better yet if they come to you, get them to come during his naptime, or if you need to go to a salon, let them know you'll be bringing your DS along, and that you won't have much time- start gathering some pic of hairstyles and make-up that you like, to make it easier and quicker. Do you have family or friends who can pitch in to help babysit, or buy and pick things up for you?
Hope your Dad is going well.
Just take a deep breath, start at the top of your list, and work your way through. Let us know if you need anything