Just a quick note for when buying anything online, hopefully my bad experience can teach some others what I didn't know,
I had ordered some gorgeous embroidered handkerchiefs for our wedding in August 2012 for our wedding just gone in February, I was advised they would be delivered in December but long story short they never arrived,
I contacted etsy and paypal who advised that after 45 they can do nothing, as the item was purchased and the delivery date was longer than 45 days there is absolutely nothing I could do to chase up the money or handkerchiefs and the response from the seller was 'don't message me again' after I tried to negotiate a refund!
Something I was not aware of but if the delivery date is longer than 45 days from purchase just remember you will not have any help from paypal!
Hope I help someone!
Btw had the best wedding ever