So i guess marriage some days is harder then others. I know everyone has their up and downs, and it definitely isnt easy if you suffer from serious pms like i do each month
Anyways, DH has been working for my family for a few years now. Its a family owned business and i guess its true when they say you shouldnt mix family and business together. Might work for some but it seems pretty hard from where im sitting. Anyways i know when dh has problems at work and he comes home and tells me about it i always tend to take my familys side, because i know dh has a short temper and the smallest things can set him off, he speaks his mind and usually doesnt hold back from speaking the truth. Sometimes i feel if dh wasnt working for my family he would have alot more respect for his boss's and do as hes told with minumal b!tching. My dad is the boss and sometimes i can tell he gets pretty frustrated at dh behaviors but for my sake they dont fire him. Im more then 110% certin that if he spoke or acted in the way he does know to a boss which wasnt a family memeber hes would have been without a job a long time ago. He thinks their not been fair on him and making him and a few other guys work harder then the rest. He just called me fuming because another family member of mine whos also a boss just got frustrated with DH and DH gave him attitude and it went sour. Anyways Dh called me saying he is going to call my dad and tell him that today is hes last day and that hes going to take 2 weeks paid holiday.
Ummm....ok, i think if it wasnt family he wouldnt dare say anything like that and i feel like im torn between family and husband, I know sometimes what they make him do is too much and sometimes what he does is not good at all. They both have their wrongs and rights but at the end of the day.....im starting to get extremely stressed out, we're constantly fighting because DH has no respect for his boss's and we're trying to save for a house and a baby... and jobs out there are so hard to hold on to expecially if you have a personality like DH, he has a personality which clashes with others and sometimes hes great and sometimes i just wanna smack him in the mouth
What the hell am i suppose to do...