Hahah, love it Brys! I'm slightly OCD so I can't go long without cleaning, but I'm having a slack day today. I'm feeling sick so I'm making DH do everything :p Least I know I'm not completely over the top with the whole housewife thing and if I feel like crap I can make him do his fair share :p
I think that is a sensible attitude to have. You can't start doing absolutely everything for them, or they will slip into that routine quite easily (and like it!). Doing slightly more when it calls for it, but then asking him to do slightly more on other occassions when it calls for it, is defintely a terrific balance.