I've always called bingo wings ta-ta's, because you are waving goodbye, that upper arm droopy bit keeps waving long after you've actually stopped!
I had grand plans of losing a lot of weight for my wedding, but I'm four weeks out, and while I've gone from 86 kilos to 76, and still hoping to be 74 for the wedding, I still have a lot of body fat - for my height, I really should be between 63-66 kilos, so I'm still 10 kilos overweight.
But I had my final fitting, and while I do have a little roll of back fat, and my arms are not great, they are a lot better than they used to be, my waist looks amazing, I can see my collar bones, my neck looks good, and I'm actually at peace with it all. Would I prefer to be 10 kilos lighter, super toned and fit - absolutely, but it's not realistic now, so I'm just focussing on the good stuff, and enjoying the day. At some point, you just need to accept your body the way it is, and just go with it.
Confidence makes any women of any size look sexy.