We wanted a small wedding but it is already looking like we will have about 100. Maybe more. I am hoping to keep it at no more than 100 - we were not planning on so many people wanting to come or on FFIL inviting everyone he speaks to, haha.
yep we wa\nted it small in bali but of course you invite one family member you invite others not wanting to get their noses out of joint. we invited about 70 thinking most would say no and hoping for about 20.....turns out we have 45. now im even more excited. i think i was áiming'at 20 coz i didnt want ti get my hopes up that no one would come
This is so hard! We want to keep the numbers closer to 50 but because we're getting married in the Philippines and most of my family and friends are there, I can't get away from not inviting them. We can't afford a wedding with 100 guests!!! I'm hoping that by having it in Boracay and that they will have to pay for flights and accoms, a lot of them will decline. But it's a big risk because they have until 2014 to save up for it.
Should I just invite them late so they don't have enough time to save up? Is that rude?