Need some help about a sticky situation. There's a girl that I'm not too fond of, I can only tolerate her if I deal with her in small bits but she's very shallow and annoying if I spend lots of time with her. For example when I spoke about my engagement party she commented on how it's a good way to see who are the cheap guests are! WTH, I never asked for gifts and will be grateful to anyone that shows up! We have a lot of mutual friends so I see her quite often at birthdays, gatherings, etc. Unfortunately I'm a bit soft hearted and felt pressured to invite her to my engagement party in July since I knew I'd be seeing her beforehand and all our mutual friends are invited.
My wedding is more than a year away but how do I avoid inviting her to the wedding? I really don't want someone like her there on my special day. Or should I find out some way to uninvite her to the engagement party? Really regret not sticking to my guns in the first place